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Or To be so sexy that your woman or mate will drop everything and have appetite for sex with you ? How do you sexually excite the woman before the act of sex ?
Scenario : If you get off work and want to have sex shortly thereafter and she is doing the dishes or working on project ,what do you do to get her to have sexual appetite for you to meet your need to have sex with her?
Or maybe she just got home from work and very tired .
And what do you do if she does not get in the mood for sex ? And you still have desire and hot tamale I don't know! As a guy, and my natural perspective, I don't underststand/appreciate the whole "Getting her in the mood" thing. I did read one thing on sex drive though, is that men's sex drive increases with stress (to a certain point) And women's decreases with even low levels of stress.
I've been trying to learn for the past few months, and have made some progress, but it's unfathomable how you could NOT want to have sex, or worse, have to be convinced or talked into it? So, knowing that, I now know to reduce stress in her mind first....to find someone to try that out on and see how correct that is.
I've had a few gf's where I didn't have to do anything, literally.The plainly told me "I want it all the time, there is no time that I don't want it, so just take it".The others seemed to respond well to gentlemanley behavior, approach them gentley and make your moves slowly so as not to ruin a moment that is building into a frenzy.Maybe a reverse hug (my front to her back) with out in-appropriate hand contact.Only a soft touch you know where with a subtle arm slip. I had one girlfriend who used to get turned on every time she saw me do housework.A touch in the small of her back with a soft caress won’t hurt. Now I've gota wait and see if she wants to reciprocate the good will gestures. Johnwith my last girlfriend, she was usually the one that was trying to get me going, but if I did want it and she didn't seem to at the time, I'd give her a hug, brush her hair out of the way, then I'd kiss her on the forehead, then work my way down to the neck, possibly nibbling the ear on the way down (she liked that) and then I'd kiss her neck, making sure to leave it a little wet, then pull back a bit and blow softly on the spot I just kissed. I'd come home, and the next thing I knew my clothes were being torn off. :p My philosophy is the seduce a women's mind...the rest follows naturally.