We have been working with young single men in our capacities as educators, public figures and authors for more than 30 years.In that time, the most common question we’ve gotten from guys centers on how to increase their confidence with women.
doesn’t know that: when she meets you, you could be Jack Ryan, Jack Sparrow or Jack the Ripper. Even more terrifying is the fact that, over the course of her life, the biggest threats to her You need to understand how women evaluate your qualities and how they perceive the status, danger, opportunities and threats that you could present.
The better you learn to see these things from women’s points of view, the less unattractive you will be to them and the less confused, resentful and frustrated you will be by how they respond to you.
We’re not suggesting you have to become a gender psychologist or feminize your whole worldview.
You are a man, and women like men; turning into a woman would make you less attractive to (most) women. And this is for the simple reason that understanding the female perspective helps you do much better with women, whatever your goal—whether it’s a one-night stand, a friend with benefits, a girlfriend or a wife.
It will help you avoid and resolve arguments, saving you hours of grief.
It will help you have better dates, cooler conversations and hotter sex.
It will help you to stop acting like a self-sabotaging dick.
And it will also help your relationships with your mom, sisters, daughters, female friends and co-workers.
They are based on the best, current scientific knowledge that we have about women’s psychology and sex differences.