hi there uhh i totally agree with "age doesnt matter" thing but i think that theres at least a bit of a limit here people. and thats fine but guys lets be serious for a moment...20 years older? Your only in your 20s, you can afford to be in a relationship with him but please don't think it will aways be so good. In your 20s your still learning about yourself and you will change.
Look around at so many examples and you'll probably see what I'm saying here.
I am head over heels for a man that is 43, and I'm 23. He has children from a previous marriage and I have a son from a past relationship but, I can see us together for the long haul.
Like I said , enjoy this for what it is but please remember you got your whole life in front of you , and many things to experience.
Me personally I feel that if the man treats you right and loves you for you there is nothing wrong. He is the same age as my mom and dad and I the same age as his older daughter.
We love eachother dearly and both share and want the same goals in life.
He also teaches me alot of things In life that is very important.
I as well teach him alot of things resolving todays society.
I love this man with my soul and we are getting married next year.
He's been married twice before with 4 kids(2)from each marriages and the youngest being 16 months.
As far as maturity levels he has his momemts where he is more inmature than me and I as well, He also is in better shape than I am.