The expectation that you will date into your late twenties and not deal with someone with a kid is probably high hopes. Let me say this up front, I’m a fan of dating women with kids.I won’t tell a person you shouldn’t date her because she has kids.I may tell you that you don’t want to date her because she doesn’t have a good handle on the situation like she should and that may be a sign.
I mean, you don’t want to walk into a Bebe’s kids situation, but you feel me. I can see why you have kids.” If you know what I mean, you know what I mean, and if you don’t hopefully one day you will.
I dated one girl and she had her daughter when she was like 14, by the time we dated years later her child was almost ten, that was awkward.
But it kind of worked out because her child’s father was good about coming through on weekends.
The other one of note was a bad jawn, like, in the history of bad jawns she’s got to be top ten.
The only problem with her was that, and if she reads this, I hope she don’t get mad but she didn’t have a good handle on her baby father. I’m not sure if you know this, but pregnancies suck ass. And if it’s not the pregnancy, I don’t know if you know this but a newborn baby is a bitch.
Like for one, he was mad verbally abusive, two he ain’t pay absolutely no child support, and three when I asked her about this she said, “I’m not trying to have my daughter knowing her father is in jail.” I really liked that girl though, but the relationship had to end when I was backed into a corner clinching some meat scissors. But there are a few benefits of dating women with kids that people don’t always bring up. The thing won’t sleep for longer than 4 hours and it needs to be fed.
You can pretty much kiss a good night’s sleep goodbye for the first six months of the baby’s life.
So if she already has kids, you have avoided that nasty experience and you can get some rest.
Now the thing about having your own kids is that you have to take care of them.